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Navigating Empathy and Conflict in Relationships

In this episode, we discuss the complexities of empathy within relationships, especially when interacting with those who may not fully grasp their own emotions. We explore how to handle conflict without defensive reactions that escalate tensions, and the importance of considering what others might be experiencing to foster deeper connections.
We discuss expressing yourself in relationships, forming meaningful connections by letting go of preconceived stories and judgments, and taking emotional accountability. 
 
For those with long-term relationships (romantic, family, etc.), misunderstandings can lead to emotional explosions if communication is neglected. We discuss how to stop running from tough situations and build genuine connections through difficult conversations.Join us as we unpack these challenges, aiming for relationships based on true connection rather than surface-level interactions.
 
*Please excuse the abnormal audio-quality in this episode, we had a technical difficulty where one mic was not picked up!
 
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Self-Pressure in Work & Creativity

In this episode, we talk about the pressures we impose on ourselves in both our professional and creative lives. Drawing from our personal journeys of leaving the corporate world, we explore how the inner critic and self-imposed pressure emerge in our pursuit of passion and business ventures.
We discuss the pervasive nature of this inner critic, how it magnifies challenges and impacts our creativity and overall well-being.
Reflecting on our careers in the corporate world, as well as our educational experiences, we examine how these pressures are ingrained in us from an early age.
Ultimately, we emphasize the crucial need to relax and release these pressures, allowing us to truly tap into our creative potential and protect our mental and physical health as we grow and create.
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Letting Go of Yourself

In this episode, we discuss the experience of letting go of the stories and ideas we have about ourselves.
We explore the impact of living in the present moment, free from conditioned thoughts and preconceived notions that often control our lives.
We reflect on the question, "Who am I?" and share how our lives change when we release control and embrace the present moment.
This episode offers thought-provoking perspectives for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of self and experience life more fully by being present. 
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Resilience: Our Ability to Grow and Evolve

In this episode, we discuss our unwavering capacity to grow and evolve in the face of difficulty. We highlight our innate ability as humans to persist and move forward in the face of obstacles. We re-frame hardships as an opportunity to shift our reality and expand our perspective of life itself. 
As we continue to heal, we are able to make more sense of our experiences, move forward, and find ourselves learning and growing in ways we never could have imagined. Pain acts as a vehicle to better understand our existence and gain a deeper appreciation for the fleeting nature of life.
A main takeaway is that no matter what happens in life, we are never stuck and obstacles serve as a teacher to bring in a new wave of perspective. 
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Moving Through Self-Sabotaging Thoughts

In this episode, we cover a wide range of topics around personal growth and a deepened self-awareness. We discuss the importance of moving forward despite self-sabotaging thoughts amidst the insidious nature of anxiety. 
Reflecting on changing life paths and the freedom that follows, we emphasize the dangers of hyper-focusing on thoughts and the importance of challenging our cyclical thought patterns that keep us imprisoned. We also examine anxiety's paralyzing effects and the deceptive nature of fear, highlighting the value of facing fears in order to deepen our experience and presence in reality.
Join us for a broad yet insightful discussion on overcoming internal obstacles and embracing change with compassion and an ounce of tough love.
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Becoming Aware of Burnout, Stress, and Anxiety

In this episode, we focus on working through anxiety and stress, especially in the context of hard work and success. We explore how it's easy to carry over unhelpful habits and patterns from our younger years into our adult working life without ever breaking free from them.
We discuss the tendency to become consumed by anxiety and reflect on the journey from being perpetually anxious to living with more ease and clarity. We examine the illusion that our anxiety is solely due to external factors, such as work, and emphasize the need to confront the internal sources of our stress.
We also explore the impact of burnout and the toll that working hard at the expense of our well-being can take. We stress the importance of being honest with ourselves about the suffering we create and finding healthier ways to manage stress and anxiety.
Join us as we navigate these complex emotions and share insights on how to break free from the cycle of anxiety and find a more balanced and fulfilling life.

Feeling Deeply: Embracing Emotions in Life and Business

In this episode, we're joined by Emily Chertow, creator of Journaling Classes:  guided journaling workshops focused on mindfulness and self-care. We discuss the power of learning to feel our feelings, crucial for both personal fulfillment and business success.
We explore the complexities of creating nurturing spaces for others while discussing the challenges of self-care amidst self-esteem struggles and self-assessment, especially when your work and identity are closely linked. We shed light on the growing pains of personal development and expanding a business, emphasizing the importance of understanding what truly serves us.
Throughout our conversation, we learn about the significance of holding our emotions proudly, rather than concealing them, and the resilience that emerges from fully experiencing and moving through difficult times. We touch on how sharing our true feelings with those around us not only fosters deeper relationships but also enhances our ability to meaningfully create.
Join us to discover how truly living—and feeling—can profoundly impact every aspect of our lives, leading to a more balanced and authentically driven existence.
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Separating Yourself From Your Thoughts

In this episode, we discuss the elusive nature of our thoughts, inspired by insights from a recent psychedelic retreat. We discuss the challenging realization that the thoughts we believe are often constructs of our mind, not reflections of reality. 
Exploring themes of resistance, awareness, and the temporary nature of our emotions, we learn how to recognize when we're caught in our thoughts and how to face them to find clarity. 
Join us as we navigate these insights, understanding that thoughts are just thoughts, and how this awareness can set us free from life's suffering.
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Navigating the Human Condition and Self-Improvement

In this episode, we discuss our common urge to find clear-cut solutions to our challenges. We'll talk about how, despite our efforts to transcend our everyday struggles or reach enlightenment, the real answers are often found within ourselves—though this may be hard to accept.
We'll also look at the risks of idolizing teachers and mentors, and how this can mislead our journey as we grow and evolve in life.
We also discuss the widespread feeling of falling behind or the need to measure up to others, exploring how this can damage our self-esteem and weaken our relationships.
Later in the episode, we challenge the societal 'rules' that tell us how to act to be appreciated, stressing that our true value is internal and that we are enough just as we are. We discuss how we sometimes alter our behavior to please others, sacrificing our authenticity in the process.
This episode reminds us that there is no final destination where everything in life becomes perfect. It's about accepting where you are right now, finding peace in the present, and trusting your ability to manage life's ups and downs.
Tune in as we learn to trust ourselves more and appreciate our unique paths.
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Acknowledging the Truth of Our Experiences

In this episode, we discuss our recent experiences with psychedelic mushrooms and the profound personal insights gained.
We emphasize the importance of active engagement in life rather than coasting on autopilot. We discuss the challenges of anxiety and hypochondria, the revelations about our fears being mental constructs, and how emotional turmoil can manifest physically and mentally. The conversation also covers the significance of processing tough experiences, the stigmas surrounding mental health, and the refreshing sense of a new beginning that psychedelics can provide.
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